You're right - it takes daily sucking stimulation, usually by a pump, and hopefully some lucky guy deep sucking on her entire areola to help stimulate the milk ducts. There are also herbal supplements she can take to help stimulate milk production in her ducts. It might take a month or more of daily activity to encourage milk production that she can then have suckled or she can pump or hand express the milk out for others to enjoy, I know I sure would!!
Wrong. Women can induce lactation through pumping their breasts, using supplements to encourage milk production and having their breasts sucked. All will stimulate the milk ducts to produce milk.